Summer

As summer draws to a close it's fun to think of those sweet days.

Teacher Gifts

Gift to Staff: sippy cup with peppermints

This empty bag once held home-made toffee eaten by teenaged daughter while I slept.


Whimsical Quilted Change Purse



Passion Fruit Soap and Moisturizing Lotion







the classic: anti-bacterial soap: pomme/savon

Here comes the fun: Starbucks, Barnes and Noble and Panera!

Vogue Gallery

Vogue Gallery
This is so Christmasy!
Click on Vogue Gallery just above and take the tour.

Hike Lake County!

Maggie and I took our first hike today at Van Patten Woods. Click on the title to link to the Lake County Forest Preserves and join the fun.

The Farming Life

"To many people, the rural life stands for the simple life, but nothing could be further from the truth. It is a life of almost
infinite complexity-not the social complexity of the city, but
something no less intricate, no less demanding. So how do I
welcome you here? Perhaps the best way is to guide you
through the chores......" V.K.

Verlyn Klinkenborg farms and writes for The New York Times. He is a scholar, teacher, and keeper of the land. I'm just getting to know him after reading his editorial Water and Grasses in the July 5th, 2010 edition. Here is an archive of articles published in the Times.

However, the most exciting discovery was a link to his
2006 blog entitled appropriately: The Rural Life. This, Reader, is treasure! Here one finds entries from the 1789 diary of Gilbert White, English naturalist, curate and author of The Natural History and Antiquities of Selborne
placed alongside Klinkenborg's own observations from his farm in New York. This is pure genius and joy. I haven't finished reading it, but it spans a mere seven months until the realities of actually maintaining a farm take over.



Selborne

Happy Memorial Day

Is this a holiday? I don't think so. We are remembering those who made the sacrifice.



Rich Landeck used to be a typical American. He knew what Memorial Day was for: Beach trips. Barbecues. Blow-out mattress sales.

There was a time when he wouldn't have flinched at the e-mail he recently received from a ham company urging him to celebrate Memorial Day with honey-smoked meat. When he wouldn't have fired off that rebuking letter to the Geneva resort that was courting customers with Memorial Day fun rates.

"I was as guilty as anybody until this happened to me," he said one night last week. "It took something like this to make me realize Memorial Day is not a day of celebration."

Landeck was speaking on the phone from his home in Wheaton. His wife, Vicki, was with him, along with their daughter Jennifer, until she choked up and had to walk away.
In February, 2007, the Landecks' only son, Kevin, was killed by a roadside bomb in Iraq. His death made big news in Chicago.

Kevin had been a kid who loved squirt guns; a teenage prankster who did Chris Farley impressions; a Purdue University graduate who hoped to work for the FBI.

And then, as swift as an explosion, he was gone.

"We find that it doesn't get any easier," Rich Landeck said. "We accept it more, I think, but the shock of it is still there."

This is the Landecks' fourth Memorial Day without their son. But just as the holiday sales make them cringe, the rituals of remembering make them sad.

They'll go to the Wheaton cemetery on Monday, but they'll skip everything else, including the big memorial in Chicago on Saturday.

"Rich said he'd like to see Mayor Daley and Maggie and say hello," said Vicki. "They were very gracious to us. But we just can't do it anymore."

Kevin Landeck would be 29 now. His parents still can't fathom the political cause for which he died. They believe the war in Iraq was wrong. But they're careful to make two things clear.

Rich: "I don't want people to feel that we feel we're owed anything. We certainly aren't. Kevin chose to do this."

Vicki: "Everyone in our community has been so great. We try to go to all those memorial things. But every time we leave them, it's like, 'Oh, my God, that was so hard.' "

They find it easier to pass by one of the fixed memorials to Kevin. The bench dedicated to him in Seven Gables Park. The rock inscribed to him at the 17th hole of Arrowhead Golf Club, where he worked when he was a student.

In June, they'll hold the fourth Capt. Kevin C. Landeck Memorial Golf Outing at Arrowhead. Raising money for good causes in Kevin's name makes them feel a little better.

Occasionally, the Landecks think of getting together with the parents of other Wheaton soldiers who died in Iraq. It never quite happens.

"It makes it more sad," Vicki said, "because they're sad, too."

On Memorial Day, Rich and Vicki may sit in the backyard overlooking the garden they planted in Kevin's honor. And yet, even it has shadows.

Vicki was working in the garden Thursday when it hit her, the way it sometimes hits her husband out of the blue, "Oh, my God, I'm never going to see my son again."

Memorial Day is many things. It is about beach trips and barbecues and blow-out mattress sales.
But most of all, it's about soldiers whose deaths ripple through lives for years.

Mary Schmich
Chicago Tribune
May 30, 2010

The News from Lake Wobegon

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